Oh, how I wanted to like this book. It’s been sitting in a place of honour on my bookshelf for months waiting for me to make time to read it. Maybe my lovingly-built-up expectations are a part of why I was so disappointed when I finally did, but they’re certainly not the whole reason.
The book was originally published as Women Sailors and Sailors’ Women, which I think is a more honest title for what it actually contains. Most of the book was less about what women did and more about how men felt about women, whether they were authors or sailors, wives or prostitutes, and too much of life is already all about how what men feel about women is more important than the women themselves. I wanted a book about seafaring women to be a book about seafaring women, and not just another part of a neverending battle for visibility and respect that I already fight.
I had a bad feeling when the first chapter of the book was about prostitution, but I still didn’t write it off at that point because an examination of the role of these women is a valuable one. But already it deviates from the idea of “seafaring women” and firmly entrenches itself in “women in a supporting role to what men did.” Subsequent chapters continued on this theme, from writing about women sailors from the perspective of the men they sailed with, to how the men in charge felt about women even being on boats, to how crews felt about the wives of their peers and commanders.
Two chapters stand out as the most egregious examples of this book being far more about men and their needs and values than about women: “Men Without Women” and “Women and Water, Sirens and Mermaids.” One is upfront in its shortcomings: “Men Without Momen” is quite blatantly an examination of men, not women. The other is more insidious, because on the surface sirens and mermaids are most certainly female figures, but they are also not real, so it becomes one more lengthy examination of what men feel and what men see.
Male homosexuality at sea–a subject certainly worth of study in its own right–was touched upon briefly, with what I felt were extremely dubious and badly-researched conclusions. As something that wasn’t the focus of the work, and in fact a subject that by definition excluded women, I thought it was entirely unnecessary in this context to begin with. It didn’t add anything to the book, and felt so slapped-together that it called into question the research done for the rest of the book.
In an comparison between handling the boats of two centuries ago to the boats of today, the author does more to devalue the accomplishments of modern women than to impress anyone with what a few eighteenth century women did. The whole book has a pervasive tone of “Isn’t it astonishing that a handful of women managed to do what the average seafaring man did?” and often approached it as a problem of ability rather than a systemic societal issue.
The most satisfying chapter was on lighthouse keepers, which was the most straightforward examination of women in a marine career and what they actually did and how they lived. It might have been the only time the deeds and struggles and accomplishments of women were (sometimes, but still not always) examined in their own right and given the respect they deserve.
Overall this was less about “seafaring women” than “women sailors liked to fuck.” When there is an entire chapter devoted to completely fictional female beings and just a few pages to Bonny and Read, the notorious female pirates, it was never going to be the kind of female-focused work that I was looking for.
I’m sure this was the book the author intended to write, but it’s certainly not the book I wanted to read.